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Medicine is not just a science, but a profession that encompasses medical science as well as personal, humanistic and professional attributes. The process of becoming a physician and being committed to lifelong learning requires that an individual possess the scientific base not only to acquire and appreciate new knowledge but also to see new ways for applying it to patient care. Every physician must delight in learning the new, correcting the old and perfecting the future. Much of what medicine now accomplishes depends on large-scale testing of procedures, interventions, vaccines and new drugs.
Being both professional and caring is an acquired skill. A physician can diagnose and prescribe in a technically correct and scientific, but insensitive way. The patient may be made better, even cured, but still feel unsatisfied with the interaction. In these cases, patients are likely to ask the questions:
1. Does my physician really care?
2. Does what happens to me matter to the physician?
3. Does my doctor show sensitivity and compassion beyond mere technical ability?
Patients want and deserve compassion and understanding. They want their doctors to be interested in them as individuals who seek advice, as well as relief from pain, disease and suffering. They want to sense that they can safely share their deepest thoughts and their most heartfelt confidences with their doctors. In short, they want to value their physician as a trusted friend. My own experiences during my rural internship have shown that a kind word is all that is needed in allaying part of the fear and anxiety associated with visiting a doctor.
Patients also expect to be kept informed while they are receiving competent professional service. As a caregiver, it is the sharing of oneself that is so very important. To some, it may seem odd to talk about caring as a learned skill, but it is just that. In studying to be a physician, one must learn both compassion and caring. Easy, supportive interaction with patients and others less fortunate, is a skill that comes readily for some and with great difficulty for others. In learning how to demonstrate compassion, Kahlil Gibran taught us: "You give but little when you give of your possessions.....it is when you give of yourself that you truly give". The giving of oneself with ease, with grace and with meaning is, for most persons, an acquired skill. Sometimes a deep sense of awakening within is required to release the innate sensitivity and compassion that perhaps have not been expressed since childhood. Nevertheless, these traits remain imperatives if the aim is to become a "complete physician".
When patients seek medical attention, they entrust their doctors with their very lives. The physician must earn such complete trust. Technical abilities and skilled treatment of disease alone do not suffice. Patients must believe that their physicians care about them as people, not just as patients. Physicians, in turn, must understand that they do far better as professionals if they err on the side of being human with their patients
A particularly difficult time comes as physicians deal with patients who become old, frail, dependent, crippled or cognitively impaired. These are circumstances from which the most sensitive among us truly learn what it means to give of ourselves. Sometimes we may find once again that our patients are the "best teachers".
On second thought, I really can't define what being a doctor encompasses..... because it is something that goes way beyond mere "definitions"..... for me, I guess, it's a way of life...... as said before, something that is inextricably intertwined with my very being.....
Adapted from: Cecil's Textbook of Medicine
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